You've got to love yourself on purpose and love yourself first. You can't feel disconnected from yourself. And you certainly have to work for everything you want out of the relationship with yourself. It's Quality over quantity. How well you polish your mirror will reflect the amount of happiness you feel. The amount of time you dedicate to creating your own happiness will increase your probability to creating the future you want for yourself. You're going to be you forever so why not treat you good. Create something amazing for her, give her something to look forward to, give her something to be proud of. Give her something that makes her feel complete. Be meticulous to her mind, body and soul. Fall deeply in love with her. Spend the rest of your life with her and not disconnected from her. the most important relationship to perfect, is the one with yourself.. Don't be afraid to be alone... It makes you stronger.
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